It takes two to tango. And the success of any relationship greatly depends on the people in it - their desire to make things work for them and of course, their love to his or her partner. Here are some of the signs that will help you gauge if you've really fallen out of love and what you should do about it.
Everything between you and your partner as well as your feelings towards him or her seems to be awkward. You tend to get easily irritated or upset with his or her insights, replies, thoughts and even those things you used to like and love. Don't let your impatience get the best of you, try to look into your love's perspective.
It's either you are always on an argument or on a fight. Misunderstanding and miscommunication have been a part of any relationship. But quarreling often, more than the usual, is something that requires attention. It's not normal to argue on very petty things - pointing each other's flaws out, bringing up the past things that hurt you, and worse, leading such to a serious fight.
You seem not to miss him or her - thinking that you are even better off without your so-called better half. When you guys were so in love with each other, you always wanted to stick around. But if you no longer make time and exert efforts as distance seems not to hurt anymore, then it's really something bothersome.
You stop seeing yourself growing old with your partner. This could have been the worst as you thought you've "almost reached" the end. You felt frustrated and melancholic of realizing that letting go of the relationship is the best thing to do - saving you a lot of heartache later.
Uh, oh! Is it really over?
Take time to ponder on what's really bothering you, then give yourself some time and space to reflect and come up with a decision. Now, if you still want to save your relationship, you'd better reminisce the good things you used to love about him or her and let those moments take you back to your senses - making yourself fall in love again, over and over. Otherwise, it's high time you guys deal with these relationship issues together, as a couple.
