Jennifer Garner admits that she's not ready to fall in love again or to start dating again after her split from Ben Affleck.

The "13 going on 30" actress who has announced that her and her former husband Ben Affleck decided to split up earlier this year after 10 years of marriage, admits that she has been feeling a lot better and relaxed lately but she is still not ready to find or to love someone like how she loved her former husband.

A source said that it might take her a long time to focus on her love life again. The actress said that she'll be focusing more on her kids, Violet, nine, Seraphina six, and Samuel, 3 when she's not busy with her career. She said that she'll only focus on her career and kids with that, she won't be having much time to actually find someone or to even go out on a date. The source also said that the 43-year-old actress is focusing on doing whatever that makes her happy, that way she'll feel more relaxed and happy about her life.

Recently, the two were photographed in LA together, they were heading to Ben's car and it seemed that they're happy with each other's company. Although they defended themselves saying that they are just trying to make their divorce "amicable" and keeping their promises that they'd love each other and become good parents to their children despite of all the negativities that life might throw at them.

There are reports that the two are planning to celebrate Christmas and Thanksgiving together but doesn't want people to assume that they're working on their relationship, they said they're celebrating together for their kids, to show them how it should be.

Ben, 43, is currently in Boston, shooting for the upcoming movie 'Live by Night' and is going back and forth to Los Angeles to visit their kids.